Patti Calene peacefully passed away Tuesday, June 25, 2024, at the Kootenai Health in Coeur d’Alene. Born to Ted W. Carlson and Thelma B. Carlson, Patti spent her formative years on the family farm in Paradise outside of Moscow. She married her beloved husband, Michael Calene, and together they raised four children: Melvin Calene (Cindy), Tracy Kanikkeberg (Mark), Michael Calene (Sandra) and Timothy Calene (deceased).
Despite the demands of motherhood, Patti pursued her education, earning her GED and becoming a licensed practical nurse — an achievement her family deeply admired. She credited Chuck Nelson of Troy for guiding her through challenging math courses and spent many late nights studying after putting her children to bed. Patti cherished the connections made with the families of her patients who thanked her for her exceptional care.
Patti had an immense love for people and animals, never turning away from a stray in need. She will be remembered fondly by her family, friends and her cherished pets, including her faithful dog Benny and cat Skittles, who provided comfort during challenging times.
Patti’s passion for horses led her on many adventures as a child, one even ending with a broken arm up on Tomar’s Butte. Later in life this passion carried her on many pack trips and camping trips with her husband and kids in the wilds of North Idaho. Patti loved accompanying her children on their father’s logging jobs, frequently returning home covered in dirt, yet always with a smile on her face. Patti was more at home outdoors than in the kitchen.
In her later years, Patti delighted in taking her grandchildren on outings to Silverwood, hot springs and other destinations, relishing their company and creating lasting memories. Patti always said she taught them all how to swim. She had a special place in her heart for each grandchild and loved to share new experiences with them.
Though travel was a dream she did not fully realize, Patti cherished the trips she took with her daughter to Hawaii, Oregon, Florida and a memorable cruise to Nassau. Patti loved a good adventure. The last years were challenging for Patti after the loss of her son, a burden that weighed heavily on her heart.
Patti is survived by her devoted husband, three of her four children, 14 grandchildren, six great-grandchildren, sister Betty Carlson, sister Sharon Hall (Carlson) and many nieces and nephews. Patti was preceded in death by her mother, father, brother and her beloved son, Timothy.
Details for a celebration of Patti’s life will be announced later, and her ashes will be interred at Burnt Ridge Cemetery, near Troy.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggest donations to dementia research or an animal shelter, causes close to Patti’s compassionate heart.
